Secrets Are Not Good for Any Relationship
Rarely will any relationship survive on secrets. A person’s lifestyle is clear after you date them only for a short while.Worth noting, however, is the fact that there may be some dark secrets he isn’t willing to let you know about.If you suspect that something doesn’t connect and you wonder what he is hiding, look out for some telltale signs.
There may be many reasons as to why he has not let you know about his parents. He may shelve the topic lest you say you want to meet his parents.Secondly, his relationship with the parents may be sour for reason he will not share with you yet.Whatever the reason is, you must establish where they come from and where they grew up so that you can continue with the relationship.
Do not be at peace if you don’t know his friends yet.Be careful not to be going out with someone who always talks about meeting his friends who seem to be virtual.Actually, he may be using the friends as proxy for covering someone important in his life or a bad habit. He may try to do this since his friends may not approve of you or you may not approve of them.Whatever makes up for the reason if you would know the truth, you might need to use some force to see clearly.
Although you may know what work he does, he never talks about it. What he does may be different from what he said he does or he may not be working at all.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried. There may be very many reasons why he will not want you to know the names.The first reason may be that they are still in touch. They may hate the memory of their past messed up relationships. For whatever reason that may be the case, establish and ensure that there is nothing dangerous in secrecy.
There may be pockets of darkness or secrets in the life of your new man. It is not good to rule out the possibility that your man may simply be shy. A serious man in a relationship will hardly hide his home and will actually offer to take you to know his home.He can also drop in so you can see his place.
Do not allow your newly found man to get away with keeping you in the dark and then taking advantage of you.